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Practicing Your Views at Home!

Why is it that we do not put as much effort in living out our views at home as we do at the job, in the market place, or simply in the public eye?
I think living the way we should at home is perhaps harder on us because at home we have a tendency to relax our beliefs. Letting down our guard at home is not the best idea, but we all seem to do it. Maybe we look at our home as a safe environment, therefore, we think it is not as important to treat others as we would at the office. But, my premise is that we ought to work harder at being the right kind of person at home, then at the office.

I am as guilty as the next for putting more effort into my professional life, than, my personal life, but the fact is when life is all over it would seem that we would be much happier knowing that we spent more effort on our personal lives.
Success grows out of personal development. If we cannot live out what we believe at home, why would we ever think that we could be successful any where else?

The important aspect of living out our personal philosophy at home is that, basically speaking, we cannot run, if, we are to grow. We have to stay there and hammer out our differences. We have to talk through issues. There are life lessons to be discovered when we work thorough problems and learn to love someone with unconditional love.

However, at the work place we can go home and forget it. We can go back into our office and shut the door. We can find another work place. There are so many various ways to retreat and not have to work for a viable solutions.
Character seems to be hammered out when we work through obstacles, rather, than always running from problems.
If I were involved in hiring someone and had a choice I would rather hire a person who has demonstrated “stickability” in his home life. I would be looking for character. It is important to be able to interact with others, even, to the point of learning conflict resolutions.

What better place to learn how to handle conflict, then, at home?
Is it easy to “practice what you preach”? Not at all, especially, at home. We want to relax and drop our guard, but there are others who are being affected by our lives. Therefore, let’s influence them for good. Let’s show others how to not only make a living, but make a life. Let’s practice our views at home. We help others be successful in our professional world, so, let’s help those we live with to be successful too.


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